These timelines follow the four girls whose stories you hear in the podcast. They flesh out the main events of their lives, drawn from the archival research.
Alida (Tilly) Mathilda de Jongg
1919—1944
1924
1929
1934
1939
1944
27 Mar. 1919
Tilly is born
Alida Mathilda (Tilly) de Jong was born in Amsterdam at Transvaalstraat 9. She grew up in a financially comfortable socialist-Jewish family of diamond workers. Her parents had been forced to marry, which led to a very unhappy marriage and a difficult home environment for both themselves and their children.
5 Jan. 1926
Huize Dina opens
Huize Dina opens its doors at its first location in Santpoort — a home where Jewish girls from mostly disadvantaged backgrounds could receive a safe and virtuous upbringing. In 1930, the home was named after Dina Sanson, founder of the “Association for the Protection of Jewish Girls,” and provided a home for Jewish aged 14-21 years old who, usually due to poverty or even violence at home, could no longer be cared for by their parents.
16 Jan. 1930
New Huize Dina built
A larger Huize Dina opens at Duinlustparkweg in Santpoort, replacing the older location at the Vinkenbaan. A large group had gathered for the official ceremony. In the main hall, the association’s president Margo Roos-Jacobson (mother of the later well-known journalist Jeanne Roos) gave the welcoming speech.
Huize Dina, Duinlustparkweg, Santpoort, ca. 1930.
Huize Dina, Duinlustparkweg, Santpoort, ca. 1930.
7 Nov. 1934
Report filed
Neighbors and Tilly’s parents file a report with the juvenile police. An official statement is drawn up.
1 Dec. 1934
State supervision
Tilly is placed under juvenile-court supervision. Amalia Rodrigues-Pereira-Stoppelman becomes her guardian and supervisor.
23 Mar. 1936
Placed in a home for working girls
Tilly is admitted to the Tehuis voor Werkende Meisjes (Home for Working Girls) at Olympiakade, Amsterdam — a modern shelter opened in 1926. Unlike closed institutions, it offered “semi-freedom”: girls could work or study, had their own rooms, wore normal clothes, and lived under supervision in a family-like setting.
30 Mar. 1936
Tilly runs away
Tilly runs away from the Tehuis (the working girls’ home) and goes to her guardian Rodrigues Pereira. The directress describes her as difficult in the group but also “sweet and warm-hearted.”.
3 Jul. 1936
Sent to Beth San
Tilly is admitted to Beth San, a Protestant reformatory on Nieuwe Herengracht in Amsterdam — an observation home for girls with difficult backgrounds who had become caught up in an immoral and troubled life. Beth San sought to guide its girls toward a calm, modest, and respectable life in society.
Beth San, home for girls, Nieuwe Herengracht, Amsterdam.
Beth San, home for girls, Nieuwe Herengracht, Amsterdam.
30 Jul. 1936
Sent to reformatory
Tilly is transferred from Amsterdam to the State Reformatory Eikenstein in Zeist — since 1909 a disciplinary school where young delinquent girls served their sentences or received re-education. Here Tilly met her friend Lenie Beaujean from Limburg, with whom she stayed in contact even after her time in Zeist.
The state reformatory Eikenstein, Zeist.
The state reformatory Eikenstein, Zeist.
1 Jun. 1937
Tilly enters Huize Dina
Tilly enters Huize Dina in Santpoort. After her time in Zeist she was allowed to go to Huize Dina, near the dunes, where she had more freedom. However, she also experienced periods of depression there. Here too, she attempted suicide.
Alida “Tilly” de Jong, ca. 1939.
Alida “Tilly” de Jong, ca. 1939.
14 Jan. 1939
Released, stays with sister
Tilly is released from Huize Dina and stays with family at Tilanusstraat, the address of her sister Jet de Paauw-de Jong. Her family guardian and Hetta Prins, the directress of Huize Dina, did not yet consider it wise for Tilly to return directly to her parents, given the many arguments in the past.
21 Nov. 1939
Serious accident
Tilly is hit by a military car on the streets of Amsterdam. She spent several weeks in hospital with a skull fracture. The injury was serious enough to require prolonged medical care and kept her away from her usual surroundings for an extended period.
c. Mar. 1940
Tilly is pregnant
Tilly becomes pregnant. Alwin Jacob Garcia, a jazz musician from Paramaribo, Surinam, is identified as the father.
Alwin Jacob Garcia. Foto: Heron, Rotterdam.
Alwin Jacob Garcia. Foto: Heron, Rotterdam.
27 Mar. 1940
Comes of age
Tilly reached the age of majority at 21 — legally an adult, expected to stand on her own feet. The legal connections with the child judge and the familyguardianship ends at this day.
10 May 1940
Nazi occupation begins
Germany occupies the Netherlands; World War II begins in Holland. Anti-Jewish measures soon followed: growing exclusion from public life, loss of rights, registration, dismissal from jobs, and increasing isolation. Step by step, Jewish citizens were separated from society, making persecution, deportation, and murder possible.
22 Oct. 1940
Mirjam (Mieke) is born
Tilly’s daughter Mirjam “Mieke” de Jong is born in the Wilhelmina Gasthuis, a large public hospital in Amsterdam. The support dossier names Alwin Jacob Garcia as the father. Not long after the pregnancy, Garcia broke off all contact with Tilly.
Archival fragment first naming Mieke’s father. Amsterdam City Archives.
Archival fragment first naming Mieke’s father. Amsterdam City Archives.
7 Jul. 1941
Sent to psychiatric ward
Tilly is taken from Amsterdam to the Apeldoornsche Bosch, a Jewish psychiatric institution in Apeldoorn. During the occupation it became a place of great danger: in January 1943 the Nazis emptied the institution and deported its patients and staff to Auschwitz. Tilly was already dismissed at the end of 1942.
6 Apr. 1943
Mirjam taken into hiding
Tilly’s daughter Mirjam “Mieke,” who had been living in a children’s home since 1941, is taken into hiding in Betondorp, Amsterdam. With the help of a kind nurse she was secretly smuggled out and taken to the nurse’s house. In this way Tilly’s daughter survived the war, growing up there until her marriage in 1970.
29 Apr. 1943
Arrested by collaborator
Tilly is arrested by police officer Pieter Schaap and taken to a police station in Amsterdam. Schaap was a Dutch employee of the SD — a fanatical persecutor of Jews who shot countless people dead. After the war he was sentenced to death and executed.
Pieter Schaap, the Dutch police officer who arrested Tilly.
Pieter Schaap, the Dutch police officer who arrested Tilly.
25 Jan. 1944
Deported to Auschwitz
Alida is deported in a cattle train from Westerbork to Auschwitz. Of the 949 people who were forced into the train wagons together with Tilly that day, only thirty would return after the war. Three days later, upon arrival, Tilly is murdered in the gas chamber.
The train station of Auschwitz-Birkenau.
The train station of Auschwitz-Birkenau.
1919